Friends...

I can say that, can Y'all out there say that?

But with that said, Y'all know that even friends fight. Its a part of life that no matter how hard one tries, its gonna happen.

Over money, where ya spend your time, who ya hand out with, what ya eat...Y'all get the idea.

But the thing that gets me, in this day of age, people think that one just simply throws things away, even a marriage.

In the almost 18 years that Amy and I have been together, we have seen our fair share of ups and downs, and slips and slides. I even left once before I went totally ballistic.

BUT...

Here we are, Together.

Whats the secret ya ask...

First, allow God in your life

Second, if it aint trashed, fix it!

And I am here to tell ya, ours was darn near trashed!

With the Great grace of God, and the willingness of her and I, we worked through it all, and still do to this day. Dont get me wrong, there are days she still wants to tie me to a post and let the crows get me, and there are still days I would love to tie her to the front of my plow truck and drive around. But my point is, Y'all have to work at it every day. 

I know that Y'all know that ya is gonna have struggles.So dont give in and dont give up, Marriage is just like life, it is what you make it.

Big Man Out

Tank